Becoming a foster parent is a deeply meaningful decision, and it’s natural to reflect on the emotional journey that comes with it. A common question we often hear is, “Can you avoid getting too attached to the children in your care?” 

The answer is simple: you will absolutely get attached—and that’s exactly what these children need. As foster parents, forming a strong emotional bond with the children in our care is intentional and crucial to their well-being. While the fear of becoming too attached is real, it’s a natural part of the journey, one we embrace with love and compassion. 

Remember, you’re not alone in this. Hearing the stories of others can be incredibly reassuring. 

 🧡 Read Jillana Goble’s biography A Love Stretched Life to hear her perspective on attachment and the part it plays in the fostering journey. 

🧡 Watch Matt get emotional talking about his attachment to the children he’s cared for:

Will I be a good foster parent?

Another common concern for people thinking of becoming foster parents is if they would be a good foster parent. The truth is, there’s no such thing as a perfect foster parent—just like there’s no such thing as a perfect parent. What truly matters is providing children with a safe, nurturing home during challenging times. 

As you’ll see from our foster page, foster parents come from all walks of life. Amazing foster parents can be single, live in apartments, have disabilities, and speak Spanish. The diversity in backgrounds is what makes the foster community so strong. 

Are you interested in becoming a foster parent?

Every Child TN is here to walk with you on this journey. We know this is a big decision and you might have some questions. To get started, contact us on our website or book a call with us by using the link below.

Schedule a call with us!

In the meantime, you can also check out some frequently asked questions about becoming a foster parent to learn more about the process.